I’ve been talking to my grandchildren about entitlement and how they are so fortunate to have the benefits of many financial and social advantages in life. They do listen. At times.
this is good. expect nothing / accept everything. i’m totally onboard.
“Entitlement may seem like a way to assert control or self-worth, but in reality, it isolates, disappoints, and erodes mental well-being.” nicely put!
i wonder how to present the notion of breaking this cycle to someone who is too entitled to realize they even need to break the cycle. i suppose a generic call for self-reflection/awareness without labeling it entitlement may lead to the realization or ah-ha moment for said person to think, “gosh, i’m so self-centered, i’m such an ass, i want to change.” ???? this is a discussion that feels worthy for an already empathetic person who wishes to confront an entitled person. at least therapeutic in some way.
side note: my family of 4 also had our trip booked to Spain in March 2020. needless to say, everything was cancelled and refunded. we have yet to fly internationally. happy travels!
Unfortunately, you can't say anything to others if they have this attitude. You simply allow nature to take care of it, and it does. They'll get a knock from the world to help wake them up. And if they don't come to their senses, they'll get another and another until they do.
PS: Spain will be lovely. We actually wanted to do a ski trip, but only decided 6 weeks ago. So we're here in Spring, which is lovely. Writing to you from Venice.
Happy Travels to you both Meredith! Spring is such a lovely time-Enjoy Your Holiday! Your article is so spot on & contains the realization of the Truth for those who are ready to receive. Their are so many that are trapped in this entitlement of attachment with the ego. Depending on ones state of mind at the time, unresolved trauma etc, some do not realise, or it has become so engrained in the psyche as a coping mechanism, a way of being heard & seen almost in some cases, & with some as the screaming toddler:_) Once we are aware of our behaviour & can be made aware in a caring environment some will, come to an acceptance or at least reflect on the changes we all need to make for ourselves! - then we can move forward & into living. Thankyou Meredith, even on Hols you impart your knowledge and wisdomx*
I’ve been talking to my grandchildren about entitlement and how they are so fortunate to have the benefits of many financial and social advantages in life. They do listen. At times.
I’m forwarding your essay to them.
Thank you Frederick i hope they appreciate it.
this is good. expect nothing / accept everything. i’m totally onboard.
“Entitlement may seem like a way to assert control or self-worth, but in reality, it isolates, disappoints, and erodes mental well-being.” nicely put!
i wonder how to present the notion of breaking this cycle to someone who is too entitled to realize they even need to break the cycle. i suppose a generic call for self-reflection/awareness without labeling it entitlement may lead to the realization or ah-ha moment for said person to think, “gosh, i’m so self-centered, i’m such an ass, i want to change.” ???? this is a discussion that feels worthy for an already empathetic person who wishes to confront an entitled person. at least therapeutic in some way.
side note: my family of 4 also had our trip booked to Spain in March 2020. needless to say, everything was cancelled and refunded. we have yet to fly internationally. happy travels!
Thanks Pen. Appreciate your feedback.
Unfortunately, you can't say anything to others if they have this attitude. You simply allow nature to take care of it, and it does. They'll get a knock from the world to help wake them up. And if they don't come to their senses, they'll get another and another until they do.
PS: Spain will be lovely. We actually wanted to do a ski trip, but only decided 6 weeks ago. So we're here in Spring, which is lovely. Writing to you from Venice.
enjoy your time away, meredith! and thank you.
Happy Travels to you both Meredith! Spring is such a lovely time-Enjoy Your Holiday! Your article is so spot on & contains the realization of the Truth for those who are ready to receive. Their are so many that are trapped in this entitlement of attachment with the ego. Depending on ones state of mind at the time, unresolved trauma etc, some do not realise, or it has become so engrained in the psyche as a coping mechanism, a way of being heard & seen almost in some cases, & with some as the screaming toddler:_) Once we are aware of our behaviour & can be made aware in a caring environment some will, come to an acceptance or at least reflect on the changes we all need to make for ourselves! - then we can move forward & into living. Thankyou Meredith, even on Hols you impart your knowledge and wisdomx*
Good morning from Venice Amilia x
Yes, Spring over here is lovely. We are having a fabulous time.
Once again, thank you for your thoughtful comment.
While there are people like yourself who truly appreciate reading these words, I will continue writing x
Yes keep writing - most of my reply is in reflection of what you have written in your article - we are so lucky you keep giving! Enjoy Venicex