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Pragya's avatar

The greatest gift we can give someone else is the gift of acceptance πŸ’›

Meredith's avatar

Absolutely, the gift of acceptance. It’s a no brainer to living a peaceful and harmonious life.

Joseph A. Carosella's avatar

Beautifully written and explained, and a beautiful tribute. I saw, felt and was influenced by your father as I read this: thank you.

Mike Clark's avatar

Meredith the best choice I ever made was to take on Vedanta in my life. I had a choice to take on Vedant and it was a risk, or to continue on the downward spiral. I chose Vedanta & it was the BEST DECISION EVER. After the first 8 years of Vedanta I took a sidetrack thinking it was more convenient. Not a very good decision & after 5 years I had a calling back to Vedanta. I maintained the change Through practicing everything you have written above, my life has become quite, peaceful, I’ve developed self worthiness. I can now make clear decisions. I approach every day with a clear purpose/ideal & this continues on a daily basis. Every day I wake up is the best day of my life.

In the same way that you think Swamiji, I thank you

Meredith's avatar

This is lovely to read, Mike. What a joy to be able to say, β€œEvery day I wake up is the best day of my life.” I feel the same way. Vedanta was my best decision ever. It has been the ground upon which I stand, the compass that directs me, and the light that clears the fog. Life may have its storms, but when you’ve discovered a truth that anchors you beyond circumstance, each day really does feel like a gift.

Franky Dyson's avatar

Exactly

Amilia TOMIC's avatar

That's a beautiful life story - when in this day & age & i am sure many more before, the ego, power, control & competitiveness are all playing a stupid & dangerous game to the detriment of the human race, if we think of what is happening globally & in our own minds. But i have seen some who are humble, quiet, almost as a silent witness. We are all contributing by just " being" who we are & exuding the energy of loving kindness, we all need to heal, moving forward as a way of positive transformation.

Anita's avatar

This line stuck with me;

β€œwhen you release the need to prove yourself, you don’t become smaller, you become greater.”

Such a simple truth, but so overlooked. Sometimes I feel like I’m the only one noticing these things, so it’s refreshing to see someone put it into words so beautifully.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts πŸ˜‡

Meredith's avatar

Here’s to becoming greater by not needing to prove yourself.

Anita's avatar

God Bless πŸ˜‡

Annette Sharp's avatar

My father was similar in that quiet, kind, and observant nature. I don't remember seeing his ego trying Shine or enforce its 'rightness' Thank you for this article and oppornity to reflect. ✍️ write on!

Meredith's avatar

Perhaps it was something in their generation, an inner strength that didn’t need to prove itself. We need more of that spirit today. Thanks Anne

Dr Priyanka Upadhyai's avatar

Your father sounds like a lovely human being. Thank you for sharing these insights. It’s true we appreciate nothing more than being ourselves

Meredith's avatar

Yes, we appreciate nothing more than being ourselves. That’s why we need to let others be who they are. That’s what creates harmony in life. Right?

Steven Muir's avatar

A gentle and wise post, and a loving tribute to your dear father.

Meredith's avatar

Thank you Steven. Loved writing this and honouring my Dad’s legacy of gentle kindness.

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MJ Polk's avatar

I love this Meredith 🀍 And your father sounds like a remarkable person, that has left the world better than he found it. Thanks for sharing this lesson. Happy Writing!πŸ€ πŸ€™

Meredith's avatar

Thanks MJ. Dad was the kindest gentlest man. A true gem.

Meredith's avatar

Well said. β€œego, power, control & competitiveness are all playing a stupid & dangerous game to the detriment of the human race.” What the world is aching for now is not loud opinions, but more humility and kindness.

Amilia TOMIC's avatar

So True Meredith "Aching" from the slow burn of suffering, yes, yes, more humility & kindness:_)

Meredith's avatar

Yes, you can feel it, can't you? The world is in pain. That's why what's happening here in this tiny corner of our modern world is so powerful. i love this space; what's being built here. Thanks again Amilia. Your role here is so valued.

Amilia TOMIC's avatar

Yes it can be felt-i am so happy that you have started substack-The Elder Sage, i thought what happens now when you left perth - but it's been the best move, for yourselves & for us & you are reaching even more people! valuable for all of us to read & practice, the perfect space to share-keep writing:_)

Vivienne Helen's avatar

Beautiful post Meredith...thank you.

A timely reminder for me.

How you describe your father reminds me of my mother...and when I was younger my teenage friends loved her.

Someone asked me recently "why did they love her? What did she do? Answer me in two words.'

The words that came to me were "She listened"....then I burst into tears. It felt like the memory of how my mum was, came to me at that moment to remind me of the importance of True Listening and True Acceptance πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ

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I haven’t received it.

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Meredith's avatar

That’s wonderful Larry. This was my father.